Gadgets!! Buzz word for today’s world!!Remember, the good old days, when the landline phone was a gadget in home and laptops and PCs, were for just work.We use to chat a lot in the home, Discuss things happened in school. Wait to meet our friend next day. We fought for that one PC in the home for video games.Now, Can you see anyone on this earth without a gadget?The answer is certainly no.
Do Gadgets Disconnects Relations Near! Could It Be Changed?
Gadgets have become a part of our life. To, be practical it is impossible to survive without it. But, to be sane, we must use them wisely. Let your gadget help you, but not disturb you and those in your family.
In today’s world, even a 2-year-old needs and asks your mobile for seeing rhymes on youtube.”Who’s mistake? Is it yours or the mistake of the kid?’’
Might be we can be happy that kid is intelligent to operate it. But, just think, won’t it be nice if you had practiced saying bedtime stories and singing rhymes to your kid?
If you create a bond between you and your kid , it will be strong, and even the creativity would increase.
Ok, leave alone the kid. We wish good morning to all those in Facebook and wats app, but forget to smile at the one living with us.Fine, this is how we had practiced ourselves for long. Certainly, it weakens the bond in the family. But, we can always change.
Gadgets Reduce The Good Talks We Can Have As a Family
Things of the past have changed. Present day kids share subject notes in Whatsapp, Find information on the internet. That is a positive note. But, as elders, we can always sit next to them, talk and get to know what is happening in their life.
• Just spend an hour free from gadgets, have a talk without any gadget in hand. Sit as a family and share how the day was for everyone or share about interesting things in your life with little ones. Guys! You may get an important phone call, so don’t switch it off, taking this word seriously.
• We are busy on social networking sites talking with school friends and college friends or colleagues in social media. The irony is we say people far to be in touch, miss you each day, but forget the ones and others living with us.
• Yes, we all have work pressure too; none of the office work is possible without the gadget. But you can spend the time you are on social media sites with those living with you.
What is the best thing to do ?
- Teach your kids that there are so many things to enjoy.Hope you all remember the old board games we played. They are all still available. Get them for your kids.Please make your kids play chess and carom on boards and not on gadgets.
- Teach them old games that we just played with pen and a notebook. Play with them. These things will improve the memory and concentration. Kids could also get creative, welcome their suggestions.
- Follow a passion .It is important for us and the kids in the family to follow some passion and do it
Just learn something productive and let the kid learn something interesting, be it dance, music or anything which interests them. This is the best way to make you productive. As it is done, there won’t be time be spend on gadgets.
- Read good, smile at each other, be happy as a family. Get creative by spending less time on gadgets.Staying away from gadgets is impossible. But, we can make the time spend wise and useful for us and the entire family.